Monday, March 26, 2012
IS KNOWING REALLY HALF THE BATTLE?
If you've suspected your sig other of cheating, is it possible that maybe their actions were already telling you what their words weren't? Should you have addressed it with them when you developed said suspicion? If you feel the need to hire an investigator, or "Cheaters", is your question not already answered? Shouldn't you have moved on? Did you really want to be told to your face by this person that it just isn't what it was, and it's over? Would you really respect them more for it? I know the answer to that seems obvious, but does it only seem so obvious because it sounds good in theory?
Better yet, if someone did break up with you the "classy" way, wouldn't you be losing out on the right to blast them? Isn't that what people want to do? When we watch shows like cheaters, we want to see someone get laid into. Isn't that why we watch? Have you ever just laid into someone? Did you feel sort of a winning "I told them" emotion? Be honest! If they left you the "right way", haven't you lost in a way? I'm really asking here.
For the girls that broke up with me the "right" way, I found myself just sitting there hurt, with not much to say. What could I really say? They told me why. It made some sort of sense, and I really couldn't argue. They won everything. I had nothing, and just had to cope and get over it. But for the girl who broke up with me the ill way by saying "This little thing we have called a relationship is over", and told me she was already seeing a dollar cab driver (Brooklyn Shit) named Keesh (YES HIS NAME WAS FUCKIN' KEESH!), I had a special set of words! I spazzed! I hung-up on her and everything (yea she did it OVER THE PHONE). She called me back crying because of how I reacted. Yea I lost in that I got dropped for a dollar cab driver named Keesh, but I got some semblance of a win in that I got to let loose! I got to let my piece be heard in a major way. She wound up in tears. I guess you could say I went out with the proverbial bang! It's sort of like if you lose a basketball game, but you still made the Sportscenter Top 10 highlights!
So again I ask, do you really want to be told? Be honest!