tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.comments2023-05-28T08:07:11.367-04:00HEAD TO HEAD- -HOW IT GOES DOWN BETWEEN MEN AND WOMENO.G. NITTYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comBlogger237125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-88964710974603920582013-06-25T11:07:18.578-04:002013-06-25T11:07:18.578-04:00You hit the nail on the head with this one Nitty. ...You hit the nail on the head with this one Nitty. I've definitely been the "idea" and "ideal" for someone. I've also had to separate the person I loved from just the idea and it made my decision to end the relationship for good.J. Sayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14000391105104386718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-9185852937627527632013-06-25T08:55:01.255-04:002013-06-25T08:55:01.255-04:00You're amazing! So true. I've been in this...You're amazing! So true. I've been in this tango for 8 years and you called everything right. Just me: A beautiful disaster!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07205379375446881604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-14654348415066751822013-06-18T12:05:23.106-04:002013-06-18T12:05:23.106-04:00LOL THANX 4TAKIN NOTICE MAMI!LOL THANX 4TAKIN NOTICE MAMI!O.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-14940250123836497742013-06-13T11:42:50.487-04:002013-06-13T11:42:50.487-04:00*NITTY POINT* always spot on. Love that you threw...*NITTY POINT* always spot on. Love that you threw the word betwixt in there, too!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-4883091069467902852013-06-12T22:33:03.755-04:002013-06-12T22:33:03.755-04:00TY TY TY! UR FAR TOO KINDTY TY TY! UR FAR TOO KINDO.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-61353715403496597392013-06-12T22:32:03.297-04:002013-06-12T22:32:03.297-04:00did u u have a mic in ur hand? Did u just drop it...did u u have a mic in ur hand? Did u just drop it and walk the hell off the stage!!!! Daaaaaamn!! U crushed this!! loved it!!! Keeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09873404788038442676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-39307216374514731472013-06-12T22:16:20.985-04:002013-06-12T22:16:20.985-04:00NICE JMNICE JMO.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-10921452915344088112013-06-12T21:38:08.367-04:002013-06-12T21:38:08.367-04:00Let people help you change for the better, but no...Let people help you change for the better, but not bring you down. Sometimes people don't understand the difference. :) Just me: A beautiful disaster!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07205379375446881604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-27348074363705939092013-06-12T19:37:24.316-04:002013-06-12T19:37:24.316-04:00MYMAAN! *SALUTE*MYMAAN! *SALUTE*O.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-57334658603105148412013-06-12T18:15:13.560-04:002013-06-12T18:15:13.560-04:00You nailed it with this one Nitty. You nailed it with this one Nitty. J. Sayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14000391105104386718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-46539159480113691282012-07-11T15:58:40.729-04:002012-07-11T15:58:40.729-04:00Hehehe! Rich people can wear anything....wouldn...Hehehe! Rich people can wear anything....wouldn't suggest it. :)Just me: A beautiful disaster!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07205379375446881604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-2315950950734445912012-04-05T22:16:57.105-04:002012-04-05T22:16:57.105-04:00Im married and will take advice from a select few ...Im married and will take advice from a select few of my single friends. In some cases with someone in the outside looking in can give you a different insite on what may be the issue, that you didn't see for yourself. I dont know everything and it wouldn't be fair to my partner for me to see things my way and not to step back and look at the bigger picture.Acnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-67865068645749950762012-04-05T22:00:26.280-04:002012-04-05T22:00:26.280-04:00There are great therapists that give excellent adv...There are great therapists that give excellent advice to their patients, even though they have never experienced the patients' dilemmas first hand. Sometimes it takes someone outside of the situation looking in to come up with a solution to a problem. With that said, I still would not feel comfortable taking marriage advice from someone that has never been married nor someone that has failed repeatedly at relationships. This is just my personal preference. Some of the behaviors I would have shaken my head at as a single person, I now understand better with experience. I guess you have to consider the source and if you feel comfortable with the advice then, by all means, take it. At the end of the day, you and your partner are responsible for the relationship and most of the time advice only tips you toward a decision you were thinking about making anyway.TJ Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13953668379357964572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-73053739480418060162012-04-05T19:20:45.268-04:002012-04-05T19:20:45.268-04:00I completely agree. As a married woman I solicit a...I completely agree. As a married woman I solicit advice from my single friends all the time. A marriage is just a relationship with someone else and everyone has experience dealing with other people. I do ask advice of my many family members who are in long and short-term marriages. No matter what others say and whether they are married or not, you have to do what is best for your relationship. Even the happiest couple on the outside may be completely screwed behind closed doors.Chimerehttp://facebook.com/Chimere.mclennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-50148011092349260492012-04-03T13:52:09.573-04:002012-04-03T13:52:09.573-04:00At the end of the day alot of women are looking to...At the end of the day alot of women are looking to have the same satisfaction as us men, the whole "numbers" thing will be out the window after a couple minutes. I mean just as cold as some guys are out here women can be the same way with their feelings!!!Acnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-17382766485320561852012-03-30T18:36:59.656-04:002012-03-30T18:36:59.656-04:00Def poetry jam on the blog! Love it!Def poetry jam on the blog! Love it!Stephanie C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11198282699471736464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-54931187972947862672012-03-30T18:00:44.829-04:002012-03-30T18:00:44.829-04:00Just give one of them my number and we can have a ...Just give one of them my number and we can have a discussion. It's not all about sex. There has to be some compatibility, also.mah0402https://www.blogger.com/profile/05060193372968850461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-54805083579425956152012-03-30T17:40:38.710-04:002012-03-30T17:40:38.710-04:00I get what you're saying too ma'am! I'...I get what you're saying too ma'am! I'm not saying sex him simply b/c there's a mutual attraction. Sex him because there's an attraction that makes you want to have sex with him. That could be any number of things. Looks, style, manners, his ambition, etc. Whatever it is. There are going to be men you find attractive, but aren't sexually attracted to. So don't have sex with them. But the ones that do? Well, I say "FUCK IT!"<br /><br />Furthermore, it depends which of my friends you sexed. Seeing as how I have faith in your judgement, I'm gonna assume you would sex one of my worthy friends. In which case, I wouldn't think of you in any negative way! I'd actually be givin' yall '95 Knicks chest bumps! *NITTYPOINT*<br /><br />I won't even address that itchy balls comment lol.O.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-85853431112746486802012-03-30T15:26:22.631-04:002012-03-30T15:26:22.631-04:00No what im saying is that almost every guy I come ...No what im saying is that almost every guy I come encounter with wants to sex me...therefore there has to be more than just "mutual attraction" that makes me give up the bun (this is when other factors have to come into play). I hear what ur saying my brotha...but for example, lets say I fucked just one of your friends (pick any one)... will ur perception of me change in anyway? Now if u say no...ur a liar lol. It'll be like nah don't invite Star cause _____ is gonna be there. Plus sexy guys have itchy balls sometime...I just feel like women need to be selective and can't have such an impulsive fuck it mentality..just for their own good. <br /><br />Star<br />@highmsstarStarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-1390152208517661662012-03-30T13:55:33.010-04:002012-03-30T13:55:33.010-04:00I feel your point Tiff, but in no way shape or for...I feel your point Tiff, but in no way shape or form am I saying the double standard is dead. I'd be pretty naive to think that. Also, if you do get around, you just may not want to do it in "tight circles" so-to-speak. For instance, if you live in Delaware, it might be tougher to get around with dudes who know each other than if you were in, say New York (however, that doesn't mean it can't be done in the 1st state either). And don't be fooled! There are plenty of focused women who wouldn't mind a quick romp in the hay! In some cases they're so focused, that may be what works best for them at that time (in their opinion). Hell, she may get "mediocre/disappointing" from the potential Mr. Right. She also might not need 100 bodies to fully take advantage of the advice I'm giving here lol.O.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-28332610803708521112012-03-30T13:49:05.164-04:002012-03-30T13:49:05.164-04:00Ok Star! First off, thanks for the blog love! No...Ok Star! First off, thanks for the blog love! Now I'm not saying to sex every guy that wants to sex you. I'm saying if if there's a mutual attraction (physical, or otherwise), and you find he's someone you would like to do it with, then do it. Don't let the reason you don't do it be one of the reasons I mentioned in the post.O.G. NITTYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-40438664970944902242012-03-30T13:37:26.836-04:002012-03-30T13:37:26.836-04:00ok so im taking another stab at this hopefully thi...ok so im taking another stab at this hopefully this one posts.<br /><br />in theory this is a great concept, and thats where it ends, in theory. What I took away from this blog is that you're saying the double standard is dead and women are free to roam just as men do and they should. I doubt it. A woman who gets around is and will always be labeled a "ho". And you can say that a woman's body count is her business but let's just be honest about this situation. Men run their mouths like little school girls when it comes to sex and eventually word will get around that the woman is loose, tarnishing her image. No man wants to marry a whore and if a man is skeptical of a woman's body that will present an issue in the relationship. If a woman is taking all the time and energy to establish herself she's looking for more than a quick roll in the sack anyway, so I wouldnt advise her to settle for some random strokes that could just be mediocre and disappointing. The put together woman just needs to keep working on her and making moves and eventually mr.right will come along. No sense is creating a 100 page rap sheet in the interim. That's just my opinion.Tiffnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-24950394157327997642012-03-30T13:08:36.315-04:002012-03-30T13:08:36.315-04:00Fuck fuck fuck everybody wanna fuck, the nigga ope...Fuck fuck fuck everybody wanna fuck, the nigga opening the door, the nigga closing up the store, the nigga giving me my mail, the nigga coming out of jail, the nigga in the corner store…them niggas asking me for mo, the nigga riding on the bike, the nigga walking with the dyke, the nigga eating eggs and ham, the guy who offered me some spam.. everyday I gotta duck, them nigga always trynna fuck! ... And this is why I have to be picky and I can’t say “Fuck it” cause if I did, I’d be fucking all fucking day long! And that’s some ho shit!<br /><br />Love your blog Nitty!<br /><br />Star<br />@highmsstarStarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-29560318128980395552012-03-30T10:43:09.793-04:002012-03-30T10:43:09.793-04:00Okay, I'mma try this again. This doggone Blogg...Okay, I'mma try this again. This doggone Blogger keeps deleting my posts! <br /><br />In summary, it's a change of mindset. When women... (PEOPLE) mature, they start looking for things in their life like organization, stability, consistency. It's time to set a foundation. Buying a home, investing in a career (not just a job) and other aspects of permanence. That also applies to relationships. Casual sex may have been good when we were younger, but there comes a point where we look for the same thing in our social areas as we do in the areas of our lives. The time has come to find stability in our mates, and why give up the cake if that doesn't give us the impression that you are stable?Ameerah CAP Pearmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13650753140916155712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-79439851903255063712012-03-29T23:44:38.707-04:002012-03-29T23:44:38.707-04:00Hahahaha ... this post is near and dear. But the ...Hahahaha ... this post is near and dear. But the PT Cruiser though (Stop hating) lol<br /><br />But, this post definitely opens my eyes. As a 20 something who has i"it together", I do find myself toying with the casual sex, Mr Right vs Mr. Right Now argument, and the counting game. But, I do think I am holding myself back. Not that I am gonna pop for every Tom, Dick, and Harry (yes them,) but, I will give Mr. What's Good or Mr. Lay It Down a try. I mean really, why not? As long as it's safe and ain't no babies coming along, it's alllllll gooood (Martin voice). Good post coon, I still hate your guts.Talk2Neithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04481531855553299415noreply@blogger.com