tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post280933085781968015..comments2023-05-28T08:07:11.367-04:00Comments on HEAD TO HEAD- -HOW IT GOES DOWN BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN: WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO TELL ME...?O.G. NITTYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08151014890636688944noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-2315950950734445912012-04-05T22:16:57.105-04:002012-04-05T22:16:57.105-04:00Im married and will take advice from a select few ...Im married and will take advice from a select few of my single friends. In some cases with someone in the outside looking in can give you a different insite on what may be the issue, that you didn't see for yourself. I dont know everything and it wouldn't be fair to my partner for me to see things my way and not to step back and look at the bigger picture.Acnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-67865068645749950762012-04-05T22:00:26.280-04:002012-04-05T22:00:26.280-04:00There are great therapists that give excellent adv...There are great therapists that give excellent advice to their patients, even though they have never experienced the patients' dilemmas first hand. Sometimes it takes someone outside of the situation looking in to come up with a solution to a problem. With that said, I still would not feel comfortable taking marriage advice from someone that has never been married nor someone that has failed repeatedly at relationships. This is just my personal preference. Some of the behaviors I would have shaken my head at as a single person, I now understand better with experience. I guess you have to consider the source and if you feel comfortable with the advice then, by all means, take it. At the end of the day, you and your partner are responsible for the relationship and most of the time advice only tips you toward a decision you were thinking about making anyway.TJ Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13953668379357964572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974144034126414926.post-73053739480418060162012-04-05T19:20:45.268-04:002012-04-05T19:20:45.268-04:00I completely agree. As a married woman I solicit a...I completely agree. As a married woman I solicit advice from my single friends all the time. A marriage is just a relationship with someone else and everyone has experience dealing with other people. I do ask advice of my many family members who are in long and short-term marriages. No matter what others say and whether they are married or not, you have to do what is best for your relationship. Even the happiest couple on the outside may be completely screwed behind closed doors.Chimerehttp://facebook.com/Chimere.mclennoreply@blogger.com